Why Would I Choose Adoption Instead of Parenting?

As you contemplate your future, you have a big decision to make. Should you parent your child or choose adoption for your child? There are benefits to both. 

Only you know what’s best for you and your child’s future. Here are a few things to consider.

What Are the Benefits of Parenting?

• You make all the decisions regarding your child’s future.
• There will be no doubts about the care and attention your child receives.
• You get to enjoy every milestone.
• Your child can fully know their heritage and extended family.
• You receive the reward of their love daily.

What Are the Benefits of Adoption?

• An adopted child usually has greater opportunities for their future.
• A two-parent home is more secure than a single-parent home.
• By choosing the adoptive couple, you have the assurance that your child is loved and cared for.
• By choosing an open or semi-open adoption, you can continue contact with your child.
• You have the freedom to concentrate on your future without the day-to-day responsibilities of parenting.

Can Adoption Be the Better Choice?

Every child deserves a safe and loving home. This decision not only impacts your future but also your child’s. The following are some of the reasons you may want to consider choosing adoption adoption for your child:

• You are currently living in an unsafe environment or relationship.
• Your child may be placed in state foster care depending on your circumstances.
• You are already raising other children, and your time and resources are limited.
• Your age or health may affect your ability to care properly for your child.
• You will not have your partner’s or parents’ assistance.

How Do I Decide?

A recent survey found that women were more satisfied with their choice to place their child for adoption when they received accurate information and did not feel coerced or manipulated. 

At Antioch Adoptions, we’ve had over 25 years of experience in adoption. Like you, we only want what’s best for you and your child. Making an adoption plan takes courage. It is not an easy choice, and it shouldn’t be.

Schedule an appointment to talk with an Antioch Adoptions specialist. We are available to counsel and mentor you for as long as you need us. Our services are provided free of charge and include everything from counseling to housing referrals and more. 

During regular business hours, you can call or text us at (425) 558-0921, or you can reach us 24/7 by calling or texting our helpline at (425) 529-3943. It is your future and your choice. We’ll help you determine what’s best. Contact us today.