What Is a Semi-Open Adoption?
An expectant woman or birth mother has many choices with today’s adoption. She can select the family that raises her child, determine the type of future she wants her child to have, and choose the amount of communication she wants to have with the adoptive family.
Until just a few decades ago, most adoptions were closed entirely. Today, 90-95% of adoptions are either open or semi-open. A semi-open adoption provides contact while maintaining your privacy. Is a semi-open adoption the right plan for you?
How Does a Semi-Open Adoption Work?
A semi-open adoption plan is also known as a mediated adoption. The biological and adoptive parents have contact with one another, but your adoption coordinator handles all communication.
For instance, Antioch Adoptions works as a third party. We safeguard your privacy by acting as a liaison between the two parties. You and the adoptive family first send an email or letter to us, and we forward it. We can also arrange phone calls and personal visits, which we often attend with you.
If you wish to remain anonymous but have contact with your child and their family, a semi-open adoption is best. The only identifying information you might exchange is your first name.
The beauty of starting with a semi-open adoption is that you can always change to an open adoption later as everyone becomes comfortable with one another. Adoption involves a tremendous amount of trust that all parties must earn.
Why Would I Choose a Semi-Open Adoption?
Adoption can be a difficult choice. A birth mother wants to know her child is safe and loved, but often, she feels very vulnerable and needs privacy. There is also a grieving process that must take place.
The adoptive parents want time to establish their new family and often struggle with knowing the best way to connect with their birth mother.
A semi-open adoption allows everyone the time to adjust, yet stay connected.
How Can Antioch Adoptions Assist Me?
How to handle your pregnancy is a big decision. It’s essential that you learn about the entire adoption process before making a choice. By contacting us, you aren’t committing to adoption for your child. It takes time. We’re a safe place to talk about your situation and this option.
If you want to learn more about adoption, please contact us. We can discuss the various adoption plans and help you tailor one that is right for you and your child.
We never coerce or attempt to manipulate you into choosing adoption. Making an adoption plan is your decision and yours alone. We are here to counsel and mentor you for as long as needed. You can reach us 24 hours daily by calling or texting (425) 529-3943.